10 Dynamic Strategies for the Positioning of Success

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Many businesses of today are often driven to compete strictly on price, quality, and features of their products and services. Companies who prosper over the long term don’t simply offer the best deals, the best quality, or the most impressive bells and whistles. If you want to win big in today’s cutting edge world of business, you have to begin by thinking differently and by challenging the status quo. Whether you are a new or an established business owner, these ten powerful strategies, taken from the Personal Environments Learning Club of CoachVille will position your company for big success.

1. Adopt the Philosophy of “Givers Gain.”

In 2003, the members of Business Network International (BNI) passed over 2 million referrals to each other. Founded by CEO Ivan Misner, BNI is a business and professional networking organization that offers members the opportunity to share ideas, contacts and most importantly, referrals. Misner founded BNI based on the philosophy of “Givers Gain,” which is the belief that in order to get business, it is important to first give business. One of the critical factors in achieving success rests in the ability to develop reciprocal relationships where two parties naturally refer business to each other on a consistent basis. “It’s not what you know but who you know” has never been so true as it is in today’s competitive world of business. For more information on Ivan Misner and his philosophy of “Giver’s Gain,” access this interview with Misner here:

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2. Focus on Soft Innovations

In today’s competitive marketplace, the old equation of spending more on advertising to increase profits it not working as it once did. In his book, Free Prize Inside, author Seth Godin, makes a strong case for using soft innovations as a way to get noticed in this crowded and noisy world. Soft innovations are the small yet insightful ideas that can take your product or service from good to remarkable. They are often hidden, and they usually solve a problem that is “ peripheral to what your product is ostensibly about.” At first glance, you think the soft innovation does not mean much, but once you have it in place, it becomes an essential part of your product or service. Examples of soft innovations include Starbuck’s Cards, Dinosaur-shaped pasta for kids, and Amazon.com cutting its ad spend and offering free shipping with the money saved. For more information, read an interview with Seth Godin in Today’s Coach here:

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3. Re-Groove!

How do you operate when the heat is on? How do you respond to chaos? When new skills or new behaviors are needed, how do you respond? Knowing what to do and how to do it is one thing but being able to respond effectively and to keep your cool under pressure and on a consistent basis is a very different ballgame. As leaders in today’s world, it is crucial to learn how to work differently and how to be able to shift and bend to meet expectations which are here one day and gone the next. The half-life of a great idea or a new product or service has never been shorter, and it is up to you as a business owner to become masterful with reshaping strategies, adding new perks to old products, and to stay on top of your game in the face of dramatically changing circumstances. You may find that your strength of achievement was required to get your company up and running but that same strength is now squelching the creativity of your team. It’s time to Re-Groove! It’s time to unlock the incredible potential that is inside of you that is required to get the job done under present day demands. If you are dedicated to re-grooving (getting past the old worn out grooves of your past conditioning and the rut that we often get into,) it is essential to work with a coach or trainer who can coach you through the new behaviors quickly and in real time. By learning to re-groove, you will be able to create incredible opportunities for your company and for yourself with lightning speed.

4. Make Your Brand a “State of Mind.”

Are you winning when it comes to style, a smart and accessible mix of products and services, and first rate customer service? If so, Bravo! However, this is just a part of the equation of what it takes to truly succeed. In order to create a brand that is truly memorable, it is crucial for you to live an inspired life and to make your brand a “state of mind” for your customers. This state of mind could be a feeling of trust and confidence, a sense of well being, or a state of knowing that you are buying from a company who has your best interests at heart. This state of mind cannot develop behind the confines of the walls of your business. It grows and develops when you are in the middle of your potential buyers…in restaurants, traveling, checking out the competition, playing sports, tinkering with a hobby, having fun and lots of it! If you are living fully and in relationship with others, you will be re-energized every day and you will give your customers a vision of what an inspired life actually looks like, because you are living one! Your brand will become much more than your trimmings…it will become the connection that others feel when they think of you as a valued person in their lives.

5. Become Masterful at Mobilizing Resources.

The ability to galvanize resources, both human and monetary, and to build effective and efficient projects with them is a critical component of success in today’s marketplace. We are quick to look first at the monetary costs of a project and quickly get cold feet, when the reality is that we have valuable resources hidden in our personal and professional lives which may not cost a dime. Social capital is one resource that is one of the most valuable assets available to business owners of today. The term social capital emphasizes that very specific benefits are made available from the trust, reciprocity, information, and cooperation associated with social networks. The value of social capital is that people can draw on the wisdom of each other to solve common problems, especially as it relates to money, time, and resources.

6. Buck Conventional Wisdom.

In 1971, Rollin King and Herb Kelleher decided to start an airline that you might say…was different and a little bit quirky. They began with one simple notion: If you get your passengers to their destinations on time, at the lowest fare possible, and make sure they have a fantastic time doing it, people will choose you over a competing airline. This is the story of Southwest Airlines, who chose to move beyond the status quo by offering services and a sense of style that bucked conventional wisdom. With their focus on fun, games, and “Love Southwest Style,” this top ranked airline has made its mark with its strong focus on stellar customer service and conveniences such as allowing customers to proceed to their departure gate without stopping at the ticket counter, skycap, and a self-service kiosk. Most importantly, Southwest has honed in on searching for important personal qualities in those they hire– the perfect blend of energy, humor, team spirit, and self-confidence to match its famously offbeat culture. Southwest was once dismissed as a maverick, as their strategies seemed strange to the traditional “airline powerhouses.” These same powerhouses are now looking in awe at what this “maverick” has built. The strategy of originality worked…It had the sticking power required for huge success.

7. Become a Talent Farm.

When recruiting new employees, what are you looking for? Raw talent? Raw communication skills? Intellect? Athletic ability? Commitment? Skills? Flexibility? What about all of this and more? If you are a company who wants to operate at the leading edge, where change is the greatest and success is the goal, you will want to recruit the most talented group of people you can find…those people who are self- starters and who are living boldly in the world. By developing a “talent farm” culture, you can instill a mindset of excellence from the top to the bottom of your organization. This culture encompasses a deeply held belief that having high caliber people is crucial to your success. With this “talent farm” approach to recruiting, your company will also be required to continually recruit top talent. Successful businesses and organizations have a strong sense of what they are looking for, and they are always on the look for new talent and ways to retain them for a lifetime.

8. Embrace Your Core Values.

What is it in life that you most value? Do you value beauty, leadership, creativity, stability, or family? You can choose to orient your life around your wants and needs or the list of things you feel you “should” be doing, but if you embrace your core values and build your life around them, you will find experience inspiration and joy at a level you never thought was possible. Whole Foods Market is one of the fastest growing supermarkets of today, because its commitment to fresh, nutritious products is a value that keeps customers coming back for more and keeps employees happy, hard working, and committed. When you focus your business on doing what feels right and what fulfills you, you will have no regrets, because you have been true to the very core of your being.

9. Become a “White Hot Center” of Influence.

A “white hot center” of influence is an organization or group that you most want your company to be aligned with and in a relationship which is reciprocal. One connection into a visible and strong center of influence can position your company to attract a stream of qualified opportunities. (Example: You are an interior designer, and you want to be in the middle of Southern Accent or Better Homes and Gardens Magazine.) In order to attract a “white hot center” of influence, you have to become what you want to attract. Be well educated, highly skilled, experienced, trained and innovative in your product development. Fill your network with other business owners who are up to big things in the world and who are experts in their respective fields. Attract talented people into your company, and tap each and every talent and skill available. As you begin to raise your bar in all areas of your business and enhance your network, you will eventually become a “white hot center” that will attract others by the thousands.

10. Just Begin.

Start where you are, and begin today to create success in your life. Drop the excuses, reasons or people to blame, dis-empowering attitudes and behaviors and get on with the business of living the life you know you were born to live. Do what you know you want to do, and do it with passion. Begin today to create the tomorrow you want. As Peter Drucker said, “The best way to predict the future is to create it”

This piece was originally submitted by Business Coaches, Bea Fields of Five Star Leader Coaching and Training and Kimberly George of Coaching Into Greatness.

Getting Results!

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Each day, I work with leaders who say “I really want to get better results…more money, more productivity, more free time, better products and services.” My response: Your ability to move into action and to achieve bottom line results rests in the power of your thinking. These ten strategies will support you in transforming your desires into concrete action.

1. Expose your fears.

Fear is a gift that was given to us at birth as a means of protection and to provide us with safety from harm. This innate fear often becomes distorted, and as adults, we begin to react with anxiety, sabotage, and self-defeating behaviors. Ask yourself this question: “What is my main fear? Is it fear of rejection, commitment, loss, change, or of growing up?” Once you have identified this fear, speak it out loud to one person and write it down on paper. Once you expose your fear, it is very possible to break through its control over your life.

2. Identify your beliefs.

Our belief system is formulated in numerous ways through our environment, family, friends, society, religion, the media, politics, and cultural influences. Quite often, negative beliefs can cause us to act in ways that actually repel success. Do you believe that “Money is evil” or “To be successful, you have to work way too hard,” or “Girls should be seen and not heard?” If so, you may be pushing away the thing that you most want in life. By identifying your negative beliefs and replacing them with beliefs that empower you, you will begin moving in a direction of lifelong success.

3. Assess your communication style using the DISC.

The DISC is a fantastic assessment tool which provides individuals with a nonjudgmental language for exploring behavior. One of the key foundations of personal and professional success lies in understanding yourself and realizing the impact that your behavior has on your life and the lives of others. This one instrument can help you be more productive, improve your communication with others, and ease conflict and frustration in all life areas.

4. NOW! Discover Your Strengths.

The strengths profile finder from the book NOW! Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton, Ph.D. is a revolutionary program which can show you how to discover and then develop your unique talents and gifts. One of the secrets to achieving big results and for feeling more fulfilled lies in exercising your strengths, not in dwelling on your weaknesses. This tool by Buckingham and Clifton can guide you to becoming a high performing and empowered individual.

5. Tap into your creativity.

Many adults move through life thinking “I am not creative,” and wondering “What if?” As humans, we all have the ability to be wildly creative, and sometimes, this requires practice. Through the support of tools such as “Five Star Mind” by Tom Wujec, you can begin to unlock and expand the creative potential that lies deep within you. Using puzzles, mind-mapping, word association, and the power of curiosity, you can stimulate your intuition, innovation, and creative expression. As Napoleon Hill stated “All the ‘breaks’ you need in life wait within your imagination. Imagination is the workshop of your mind, capable of turning mind-energy into accomplishment and wealth.”

6. Focus!

A good idea can become a fantastic and profitable idea when it is given true focus. Your ability to concentrate begins with removing external (phone, interruptions, and noise,) and internal (fear, worry, and doubt) distractions. Creating a brain dump is a first step in the direction of focus. By purging all that is in your mind onto paper, you will create the room you need to begin focused thinking. From here, finding a time and place to focus and choosing one priority to concentrate on will make you more productive and will start your walk to greatness.

7. Join or Start a Mastermind Group.

Did you know that Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell, Henry Ford and Harvey Firestone were all members of a Mastermind Group? This group of Leaders knew something many of us do not know. They knew that the key to their success was in their ability to rely on each other for feedback, ideas, accountability, and above all…support! These men controlled much of the industry of the United States during the height of their careers. Innovation and expansion in human thought often result from teams that mentally capitalize on the principle of collaborative thinking. With spontaneous expression and interchange of thoughts with folks who are up to big things in life, a mastermind group can shift your awareness, expand your thinking, and can take you to unprecedented levels of inspiration.

8. Be devoted to extreme self-care.

You have heard it hundreds of times, but are you living it? Be devoted to a life of great sleep, daily exercise, a balanced diet, meditation, and luxuries such as massage. Begin today to formulate a plan for self care that will give you the energy to not only tackle life’s challenges but to one that will inspire you to greatness.

9. Teach what you most want to achieve.

Teaching is about sharing and using your own experiences in order that others may learn from your learning. The teaching process can also support you in developing yourself and is all about learning from other people. When we teach, we are developing, both personally and professionally, as we learn from our students, and most significantly, we are more likely to put our knowledge into action. By teaching what you most want to achieve, you will develop the knowledge and skills to take you where you most want to go in life.

10. Strive for mastery.

Mastery is defined as a possession or display of great skill or technique. By going for mastery with your goal, you will be playing a much bigger game in life, calling you to set your sights much higher. When your goal is mastery, you will be devoted to finding better ways to deliver what you offer, you will be expanding your knowledge, and you will find yourself achieving much more than you ever thought was possible.

Does Your Marketing Plan Need a Facelift?

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Is your marketing plan dull, flat, and downright boring? Is it lacking the zest and appeal which can penetrate the consciousness of your buyers If so, you may be driving away folks who could easily buy your products or services. If so, these ten signs from The 90 Day Marketing Marathon Blunders from A to Z: B is for Boring will support you in raising your awareness of what drives folks away and tips on how you can create a message which will catch fire in the market place.

(1) It’s all about you.

Folks are not interested in you and your accolades. They want to know what you can do to solve their problem of the day. Drop the focus on you, and turn the spotlight on what is important to your buyer.

(2) Your plan is filled with details and research.

People are bogged down in details and statistics. They are much more interested in buying from someone who shares their personal experiences and who is willing to build an open and honest relationship.

(3) It lacks action-oriented words.

People love to buy Nike products, because the words “Just Do It” communicate action. By using words such as run, dance, live, sing, move, or play, you will get your potential clients moving, excited about buying your product or service.

(4) You have nothing new to offer.

People are bored with the same old same old. Put yourself on the bleeding edge of your profession by taking advantage of the new tools and resources which are out of the norm. (Example: In Coaching, we take advantage of modern online survey tools and blogging tools which breathe new life into our businesses.)

(5) Your message drips of “neediness.”

If your marketing message is focused on “sell, sell, sell,” you will send the message that you are needy, which will drive customers away. Communicate your willingness to provide value, and you will develop raving fans.

(6) Your message lacks “color.”

An advertisement can be delivered in black and white, still have “color,” and paint an amazing picture. Use powerful words which will grab the attention of your potential customers such as discover (suggests excitement,) proven (sends a message of peace of mind,) and savings (everyone wants more money and more time.)

(7) You are marketing on the surface.

People buy based on emotions. If you are selling shampoo, don’t just sell shampoo…sell beautiful hair. If you are selling heating and air units, sell comfort and warmth. If you are selling a vacation, sell a luxurious day on the beach and romantic walks under the stars.

(8) It lacks your personality.

Even if you are selling widgets, folks want to know who is selling the widgets. Why? Because they want to know you can be trusted to deliver as promised. Use fun photographs and life stories so that your buyers can get a closer look at your life. The connection you will make will be unforgettable.

(9) Your message lacks added value.

Studies show that people will buy if the value perceived is worth the investment. If you are charging nickels and dimes for small extras, you will quickly drive buyers away. People who “nit pick” over incidentals are often considered to be “uptight” and “inflexible.” Yawn!!!. Drop the nit-picking, and over deliver by adding extra value. Folks will love you for it!

(10) You are playing “Follow the Leader.”

People want to buy from people who are leaders…not people who are offering copycat versions of something else they’ve seen out there in the marketplace. Be bold and unique in what you stand for in your business, and make this known on your website, in your brochures, and in the articles you write. You will position yourself as someone who is both open and confident and someone who is worthy of trust.

The Accountability Formula

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When is John going to get me that report?”

“What is going on with the marketing report? When are they going to finish that thing?”

“I can’t believe Mary is so late in making those phone calls.”

“Okay…who dropped the ball this time?”

“Hey…that’s not MY job.”

Does this sound familiar? If so, your small business team may be faced with a big challenge with accountability, which results in finger pointing, frustration and broken trust…both with your employees and your customers. Personal responsibility and accountability can put an end to the blame game, saving your business thousands if not millions of dollars by increasing productivity and overall job satisfaction, which results in very satisfied customers. These five basic approaches can support you in increasing accountability, which are simple, yet they require actually building a culture of accountability for your business.

Communicate the big picture- Accountability stands a better chance of succeeding if everyone in your business embraces a larger responsibility for the success of the entire company. Spend time talking individually with team members about how his or her project affects the vision and mission of the business. With this communication, people can make wiser decisions from the context of the “big picture” rather than from the perspective of what may seem to be a detailed and boring task.

State clear expectations- If one person on your team does not meet your expectations, the entire team can fail. It is important from the very beginning of any new project to state the expectations clearly and repeat them over and over again until your team really “gets it.” These expectations need to be crystal clear, including dates, who is responsible for what, the details of the task and how you want the finished product delivered. If your expectations are fuzzy or confusing in any way, your team can break down, and the fine and very important details can fall through the cracks.

Accountability work groups-One of the best ways to achieve accountability is to develop shared accountability among team members. Accountability within the team can be accomplished by what Morris R. Shechtman calls “accountability groups,” groups which give team members the permission to speak and listen in a way which is frank and open. This accountability group can include 2-5 people and can then serve as a small unit of people working together to confide in with struggles, weaknesses and insecurities. They can then find creative strategies to work together in the direction of the growth the team intends to achieve.

Move to action-In order for accountability to work, people have to know that failure of completion will come with certain consequences, including written warnings, loss of a bonus or extra hours served on a week-end to complete the project on the table. Without consequences, your employees won’t take you seriously. They will think that they can use blame, justification and rationalization as a way to deviate from being responsible, because you have not followed through on what you said you will do if the tasks are not achieved.

Reward and recognition program-Employees need to know in a tangible way their efforts are indeed driving the company forward, and it is important for them to share in the fruits of their hard work. The offer of increased pay and benefits (vacations, time off and other perks) can keep accountability and morale high and can motivate employees to continue to strive for high levels of performance.

Blind Spots: Part 2: ASSUMPTIONS

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As I talked with a client yesterday, I was noticing that he was getting ready to make a few decisions for his business based on what he was pre-supposing to be facts (they were actually huge assumptions). I knew from my experience of working with thousands of people around the globe that he was assuming something about his business which just was not true…or at least, we did not have the facts to back up his assumptions. And…I had also seen other business cases just like his which had some great outcomes based on multiple solutions he had not yet seen.

Making business decisions based on assumptions can be very risky business. Let’s say that you have a new product or service, and you assume that it is going to rock the marketplace, and you don’t take the steps necessary to beta test and perform some solid R and D. Without this information, you don’t really know if your product or service is going to sell. Another example might be that you are facing a tough business dilemma, and you assume that there are no answers…no one to help you get through this. Rather than go searching for answers and support, you spend a month or two spinning about your problem.

When assumptions rule your decision making, you actually develop a closed world view…a world view that is very narrow and has very limited possibilities. We get locked into judgments, worst case scenarios and a constant negative stream of consciousness, and while we are spinning, our businesses are slowly but surely going down the drain.

If you are reading this blog post, and you have been living in assumption, the best advice I can give you is this…Get educated! Look out there in the world for answers, fill in the gaps, talk to people, and look for new possibilities…new ways of viewing your decisions. You might just be surprised at what you find out!

Meet Bea Fields

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Bea Fields is the President of Bea Fields Companies, Inc. and the Founder of Five Star Leader Coaching and Training, a leadership consulting firm currently serving over 800 clients world-wide.

Her latest book, co-authored with Scott Wilder, Jim Bunch and Rob Newbold, Millennial Leaders: Success Stories From Today’s Most Brilliant Generation Y Leaders is now on sale through Barnes & Noble and Amazon. The new book explores and analyzes Generation Y - the young adults currently between the ages of 18 and 30 - from a socio-economic standpoint. The book highlights 25 members of this generation who have already made a name for themselves, and provides crucial insights for business and political leaders seeking to tap into this demographic. Along with Corey Blake and Eva Silva Travers, Fields is also the author of Edge: A Leadership Story (Writers of the Round Table Press: May: 2008).

Fields’ educational background includes a bachelor’s degree from The University of Alabama, and a certificate degree in Leadership Coaching from Georgetown University in Washington, DC. She holds several important certifications which include The International Coach Federation’s Professional Certified Coach (PCC) designation and the Guerrilla Marketing coach certification. She received the Thomas Leonard Award in 2006, which is an honor bestowed on a coach who has exhibited mastery in the profession of executive coaching.

Bea Fields Companies, Inc. has had great success in using a variety of leadership and business development programs to assist clients in the areas of leadership and team development, strategic planning, business development, strategic alliance development, training and event development, creative writing, leadership branding, and public speaking.

In addition to her consulting work, Fields maintains an active role in her community. She has served on the Board of Visitors for The University of North Carolina’s Children’s Hospital, and the board of directors for The Sandhills Children’s Center in Southern Pines, North Carolina. She has also served as a director for The FirstHealth Hospice Foundation in Pinehurst, North Carolina, and The Episcopal Day School in Southern Pines, North Carolina. She is the Chairman Elect for the Board of Directors of the Moore County Chamber of Commerce.

Fields lives in Southern Pines, NC with her husband, Mike. She is the mother of three: Ann Fields, Sophomore at Duke University, Katie Fields, Sophomore at Wofford College and Jack Fields, who is a Senior at Pine Crest High School and will be attending and playing golf for the University of North Carolina starting in August 2008.

Blind Spots: Part 1: THE FAULT FINDER

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You know the scene…You are driving down the highway, you start merging into the left lane, and suddenly you hear horns blowing loudly and the sound of screeching tires. Fear floods your body, because you suddenly realize another car was in the left lane! Yes! The car was in your blind spot, and you never even saw it.

Blind spots are a very common phenomenon, and they don’t just happen with our vision as we are speeding down the freeway. Blind spots also occur in our thinking and our emotions, and we don’t even know they exist…but guess what…other people see them, and as much as I hate to admit it…other people talk about our blind spots (and usually not directly to us…they talk to other people about our blind spots!) We are usually clueless as to how these blind spots are affecting our lives…our environments, our business, our ability to make money and the people (including our customers) we come in contact each day.

Every human lives with a blind spot of some type…And today, I want to talk about one: The “Fault Finder”. I hope to raise your awareness just a pinch…because most humans have a “Fault Finder” in them…it’s just human nature.

You know the “Fault Finder”..He or she contacts you to tell you about the typos on your website, or they always say “Hey…that’s not my fault!” They find problems and mistakes at every turn, and they label you based on what you “did or didn’t do.” It’s almost as if the “Fault Finders” think they were born to find faults in other people and in situations and to blame the world for their problems! Yawwnnn! Ugh! If only they could get paid for these good deeds (or faulty deeds…if you are a “Fault Finder”, you can choose the language that best suits you).

This blind spot is a BIGGIE, because the “Fault Finder” never takes responsibility for their role in a situation…I have big news for you! If you are currently in a relationship or a business venture or a life circumstance that is going sour, guess what? It’s your fault! Yes…it’s true…in every situation you find yourself in life, you have deliberately chosen to put yourself there.

Each day, we make choices…We wake up and decide to either exercise or drink an extra cup of coffee. We decide to go right or turn left at the red light. We decide to procrastinate or move forward on our action steps…We decide to stay in a negative relationship or a negative business partnership. Yes my friend…the decisions you make today are in your control. If something is not going your way, my first question is this: “What did you do to contribute to this negative situation, and what are you going to do about it?”

The typical response is usually the same “Well…it’s not all my fault!” Well…let’s look at that…if you are choosing to stay in your current situation, you are 100% responsible for what happens. If someone “does something to you”, somewhere along the way, you made the conscious choice to be involved…right? Or…you made a conscious choice to STAY involved.

As soon as you begin to realize that you are at choice and 100% responsbile for your life, you will find a new level of freedom and abundance. You will understand that you have a choice to go right or left at the red light. You will understand that you have a choice to eat a piece of yummy chocolate fudge cake with dark chocolate fudge icing (is your mouth watering?) or a crisp, sweet apple. You will understand that you have a choice as to whether you lose or make money. It’s all in your hands.

As you read this blog entry today, begin to consider “What choices are you making that are impacting your life, and how will you become 100% responsible for what you choose to do?” And…give yourself a great gift, and leave your “Fault Finder” behind…just for today. Let me know how that works for you!

Celebration!

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Okay…I have to slip into "the bragging mom" role for just one post. 

Ann and Katie were a part of the 4-woman relay team who won the NCHSAA Indoor Track and Field 3200 relay event for the state of NC this past week-end in Chapel Hill, NC.  Their overall time of 9:58:06 was the third best time in the history of the event.  This is also the first time that the Pinecrest Womens’ Track Team has won this event. 

And…Jack Fields qualified in the number 2 position for the Pinecrest Golf Team, tying Rob Riesen in the final round.  Rob is currently ranked number 1 in the state of North Carolina, has been recruited by the University of North Carolina to play at the college level, and says he is heading in the direction of the USGA Tour. 

Big things happening here in Pinehurst!

DRAMATIC, IMMEDIATE AND IRREVERSIBLE IMPACT!

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So…over one million people in the world are willing to pay over $2.00 for a cup of coffee, but coaches are telling me that people are not willing to buy coaching? Let me see if I can get this straight. People are willing to pay over $700.00 each year (some people are saying they are spending $10.00 a day on Starbucks…just do the math!) for a cup of Starbucks (which I love, but it is not my end all/be all,) and yet people do not see the value of having a professional coach work with them to make more money, have more free time, build better relationships, and live the life that they truly love? What the heck is going on?

I believe that there are many reasons for this, but the most important thing is this: As coaches, we have to be willing to get out there and put ourselves on the line and create a DRAMATIC, IMMEDIATE AND IRREVERSIBLE IMPACT in the marketplace. Coaches are popping out into the world like they were formed inside a muffin tin and they cannot break out of the original form: “I’m a life coach” “I’m a business coach” Yeah…so what? So are 15,000 other people. It is time to start answering some provocative questions and getting out there and telling people the answers they really want to know:

Who are you REALLY?

What do you stand for?

What is a project that you feel so passionate about you would be willing to devote your life to perfecting it?

What is it that ticks you off?

What is it that grabs you by the nape of the neck and snaps you to attention?

What is different about you that makes you great enough for me to hire you?

What can you do for ME?

Come on people…Get up and get moving. Get into your bodies, hearts, and souls and start making some noise.

The complacent attitudes are really bothering me…”Well, I guess I’ll work on my coaching PRACTICE” (Ugh…that word “practice” really gets on my last nerve.) The coaching that you offer is not a practice. It is a business, and you have to treat it like one. You cannot sit back in your office, work the attraction principles, and hope that clients fall in your lap like manna from heaven. When the Duke University Blue Devils are ramping up to go head to head with the UNC Tarheels, do you hear Coach Mike Krzyzewski saying “Yes…we have a little practice coming up with UNC.” No way!…He says “We have a very serious game against UNC coming up, and it is crucial that we not just play but that we play to win.”

Right now, I want you to link over to Andy Wibbels Blog: http://www.coachamatic.com/ and see what he is doing. Andy is a leader in this world, and he does not hold back in what he thinks. He is creating a DRAMATIC, IMMEDIATE AND IRREVERSIBLE IMPACT! He writes from his heart, and he does not go back and say “Oh…I did not mean to say that.” Nope…it is irreversible, it is dramatic, and it is immediate, and he is shaking it up in the world.

If you are reading this blog, I want you to go to http://www.coachamatic.com/ and http://www.easybakeweblogs.com/ and sign up for one of Andy’s programs. And no…I am not getting any type of affiliate fee or kick-back from sending you over there. I want you to sign up for a blog class so that you can start letting the world know what you are up to in a big and bold way.

And…this week…stop calling your coaching business a coaching practice.

The Apprentice is Back! And so am I

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Whew! It has been a long time since I have been to my blog, and I want to say…I have missed it so.

My busy-ness and my business have been well…busy! I have been a little cramped on the creativity side over the last several months, but watching The Apprentice last night made me realize that I still had some fire in me.

I know people have issues with Donald Trump…I totally get that, but I have to say…He hit the mark last night. I had predicted yesterday morning that Stacie J. (Stacie with an “ie”) would get fired. In my opinion, her time is VERY short unless she does an about face. She is a loose cannon, and she is by far not the favorite of her team mates, but as soon as I saw what Bradford did, I shrieked…”Oh My. Donald is going to eat your lunch.” And, he did…Bradford…”You’re fired!”

My husband, Mike and I had a little “discussion” (more like a debate) about the situation (The Apprentice is bigger than a Duke basketball game in the Fields home…which is saying A LOT.) Mike felt that Donald was being a jerk, and I truly felt that Bradford let his cocky attitude and his puffed up view of his abilities get in the way of being smart (I do think he is brilliant…by the way…I said last week that this guy has what it takes to succeed if he can get his ego out of the way.) As soon as I heard that he was willing to relinquish his exemption, I knew Ivana would bring him back in the board room, and it was going to get ugly.

I say all of this, because there are so many times in life that we all just need to “shut up!” We say too much, we push the edge, and we shoot ourselves in the foot. If we could all just stick to the facts without the dramatic commentary, I believe that businesses and corporations would run so much more smoothly. Bradford is brilliant, but he is so full of himself…he has a way to go before her really makes it as a leader.

My eye is on Andy. He may not make it to the end, but this guy is brilliant. His youth and lack of experience may be his weak link, but the kid is amazing. Just watch the show and see how his mind works and what he says…He hits the nail on the head every time. A Harvard Grad and winner of the National Debate Championship in Commentary Speaking, Andy co-founded a concert package company that focused on coprorate and individual clients at age 13.Now that’s brilliant!

For more information on The Apprentice, visit The Apprentice 2 at NBC.com.

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